This is such a template response for most dudes. And its simple…guys want the easy route out of relationships. That way they don’t get to commit so much. It’s a typical example of eating your cake n having it. Basically its about sitting on the fence undecided, while enjoying the benefit and safety of neither being here nor there.
People are different, we are all cut from different fabrics. We all go thru the motions of heartbreaks and disappointments. Everyone has lost a cherished relationship at one point or the other in life. I ve never believed in transferred aggressions. I ve always approached my relationships with a certain state of mind…..she is DIFFERENT and that’s the only reason why we are considering a relationship.. Just cos yr last chic left the way she did don’t mean the next one will. Its all in the mind. We need to understand that we control how we get over emotional pain to a large extent.
Sweet memories linger, and hurt like hell after break ups. Recalling all the stuff you had in common, the music, the food, the movies u saw together, the little gifts exchanged, pictures, mails, your engaged /relationship status on facebook?, common friends, etc . it all culminates into pain and loneliness when its over. But may I ask? Whut is really permanent in life?
People change. People fall out of love and explore new directions. It takes the Divine and a lot of creativity to stay growing, so keep working on both you heard?
Dudes need to get real and skip all the excuses. Chics as well. There are no guarantees so learn to give it your best when its on…
Marriage is bliss afterall
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